Reading Strategies and Habits with Jim Kwik: Learn to Speed Read and Retain More Information

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Did you know millionaires read more books? And before you think that’s because having wealth created more time for them, they read more before they had wealth.

I try to read as much as I can but I also have a lot of books on my bookshelf that I haven’t touched. Can you relate?

I remember I scoffed the first time I read about Warren Buffet spending 80% of his time reading. But books are a direct line to someone’s years of hard-won expertise and research so don’t you think it’s worth the time to soak up that learning and apply it your business and life?

The truth is, you can learn to read a lot faster than you do now AND retain the information.

You just need to find the right coach. And that’s where my guest + brain coach Jim Kwik comes in. Jim has coached me and I learned so many things from him that I wanted you to have access to as well!

Jim once read one book a DAY for four and a half YEARS. He’s going to help you read at least twice as fast as you do now so you can start soaking up all that wisdom sitting on your bookshelves and nightstand! Ready?

Click here to watch the episode.

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I’ll be taking on the challenge Jim gives us in the episode this week, and I hope you’ll join too. Share your progress with me in a comment or on Instagram.

Xo

Natalie

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What Is Your Inner Critic Saying to You?

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It’s time to cut yourself some slack. Most of us are experts at being hard on ourselves and novices at being easy with ourselves. Listen to your self-talk. How many times per day do you tell yourself something to the tune of: “I’m not good enough, I am not deserving, something is wrong with me, I should have done or been more, better or different”? And is telling yourself these things bringing more joy, fulfillment, success and peace into your life? I suspect not.

If you talked to your friends the way you talk to yourself and had the expectations of them you have of yourself, how many friends would you have? Today let’s UPdate the old “Golden Rule” to: “do onto yourself what you do to others and do not do onto yourself what you would not do to others.”

It’s time to mute the voice of your inner critic because the more airtime you give it, the more you start to believe all the lies you are telling yourself. @ChristinHassler (Click to Tweet!)

Here is the truth: You are perfect, whole and complete just as you are. You have never done anything wrong and have always done the best you could. There is nothing bad, broken or undeserving about you. What other people think of you is none of your business. It is your human right (and purpose) to express and share all your fabulous qualities!

It’s time to befriend yourself by choosing UPlifting self-talk. My prescription to support you in doing this is to incorporate these two very simple daily practices:

1. Every morning when you wake up or on your way to work, listen to the song I’m Amazing and believe the lyrics as you sing along.

2. Read this passage by Marianne Williamson, out loud, while looking at yourself in the mirror. Trust me, it’s powerful.

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make and manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” – Marianne Williamson

Today, declare yourself an expert at self-acceptance and apply the Golden Rule onto yourself!

Love,

Christine

P.S. I have a new podcast where I coach people LIVE on the air. Head over to Over it and On With It and listen in for inspiration and action steps.

 


Christine Hassler has broken down the complex and overwhelming experience of recovering from disappointment into a step-by-step treatment plan in her new book Expectation Hangover. This book reveals the formula for how to process disappointment on the emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual levels to immediately ease suffering. Instead of wallowing in regret, self-recrimination, or anger, we can see these experiences as catalysts for profound transformation and doorways that open to possibility. You can find more info on her website, and follow her on Twitter and FB.

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Rapists in Alabama to Face Less Prison Time Than Doctors Who Perform Abortions for Rape Victims

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In a shockingly draconian move, Alabama just passed an abortion ban with no exceptions for rape or incest.

House Bill 314—or the “Human Life Protection Act”—passed in Alabama’s State Senate after a 25 to 6 vote on Tuesday. The bill now heads to the desk of Alabama’s Governor Kay Ivey. If the Republican governor signs the bill, it will become law.

While HB 314 leaves no exceptions for rape or incest, it does allow for abortions when “necessary in order to prevent a serious health risk” to the woman. The entire text of the bill can be found here.

The bill also reclassifies abortion as a Class A felony, which is punishable by up to 99 years in prison for doctors who preform the procedure after the bill becomes law.

Senate Minority Leader Bobby Singleton said in the debate before the vote:

“It’s a sad day in Alabama. You just said to my daughter, you don’t matter, you don’t matter in the state of Alabama.”

Lieutenant Governor Will Ainsworth celebrated the bill’s passage on Twitter.

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The ACLU took to Twitter just minutes after.

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In language that Jewish advocates have called “outrageously offensive,” the bill compares lives lost in the Holocaust to the number of abortions performed since Roe v. Wade, the 1973 landmark decision protecting s a woman’s right to the procedure.

In late April, Alabama’s House of Representatives approved HB314 in a vote of 74 to 3. After Republicans blocked an a rape an incest amendment, 28 of the state’s 105 representatives refused to vote on the measure.

Staci Fox, president and chief executive officer of Planned Parenthood Southeast Advocates, called the bill a “death sentence for women across this state.”

Supporters of a women’s right to choose have become increasingly vocal across social media platforms since the bill’s approval on Tuesday.

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Attacks on the legality of abortion at the state level have ramped up in the last year. Just last week Georgia’s Governor Brian Kemp signed a bill into law effectively prohibiting abortions after a heartbeat is detected. A heartbeat can often be detected 5-6 weeks into pregnancy, which is long before most women even know they’re pregnant. Georgie was the fourth state to pass a new abortion law in 2019.

Anti-abortion activists hope the recent onslaught of anti-abortion laws will cause the issue to be taken up, once again, by the Supreme Court with the goal of overturning Roe v. Wade. Advocates of stricter abortion laws aren’t shy about their goals. In fact, Representative Terri Collins, sponsor of HB314, called the bill a “direct attack” on Roe v. Wade. Collins said just last week, “The heart of this bill is to confront a decision that was made by the courts in 1973 that said the baby in the womb is not a person.”

The new law will not go into effect until six months after Governor Kay Ivey signs what some are calling a real-life Handmaid’s Tale.

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Kuwaiti Court Dismisses Guilty Verdict In Port Fraud Case, Then Raises Defendents' Bail To $168M

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A Kuwaiti court has imposed an additional bail demand of $132m on two business executives charged with embezzling funds from a state-owned entity, despite the case against them appearing to have collapsed amid claims of forged documents and countervailing judgements by other courts

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The World’s First Seasteaders Are Now on the Run for Their Lives

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American software developer Chad Elwartowski and his Thai girlfriend Supranee Thepdet made history earlier this year when they abandoned their landlocked lives and embarked on their shared journey as pioneers living on a seastead in the high seas.

Living on a permanent floating dwelling in international waters was supposed to make them the freest people in the world. Instead, it made them a target of the Thai government, which is now threatening the couple with their lives.

Working with Ocean Builders, a group of “engineering focused entrepreneurs” who build these structures (see below), the couple used cryptocurrency to purchase their floating home. The seasteads Ocean Builders designs are octagons made of steel and concrete. The structures are inspired by the “spar” design of oil platforms that already exist out at sea, except they are not nearly as large nor are they as expensive. While they are tiny—about 25 square meters—they are able to withstand strong waves and even hurricanes.

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As Ocean Builders explains:

Our spar platform consists of a 20 meter steel cylinder that is ballasted by concrete at the bottom. This allows for very little movement from the waves keeping the center of gravity low below the water line.

On February 2, 2019, they officially moved into their new residence, which they named “Exly” after the Roman numerals XLII, a reference from Douglas Adams’ book The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy. Exly was strategically placed in international waters just 12 nautical miles out from the official jurisdiction of Phuket, Thailand.

Close enough to take a short boat ride to the shore but far enough away to live a completely sovereign life unshackled from government rule, the couple took a philosophical concept, now decades old, and turned it into a reality, inspiring all those dreaming of a living a truly free, self-sufficient life.

“I just want to make seasteading happen for real,” Thepdet told Reason in March. And while they got to experience true sovereignty for a handful of weeks, their experiment was cut short after the Thai government declared that their seastead was a threat to its national sovereignty.

To be sure, while the couple had spoken passionately about freedom from government rule, their actions were not seditious. Neither had ever threatened to overthrow the Thai government; nor had they made threats of violence or belittled the sovereignty of Thailand. Elwartowski and Supranee were merely trying to live their lives on a tiny seastead in the ocean and did not pose a threat to anyone. Ocean Builders and the couple have both said they made certain that the structure was in international waters and, thus, beyond Thailand’s jurisdiction, but the authorities have claimed otherwise.

Asserting that Exly was still within Thailand’s 200-mile exclusive economic zone, the government made plans to charge the couple with threatening Thailand’s national sovereignty, a crime punishable by death. However, before the Thai Navy could come detain the couple, they were tipped off and managed to escape. They are now on the run, fleeing for their lives.

In the marketplace, individuals are free to try a variety of goods and services before deciding which one they prefer. If, for example, a person tries Gym A and then finds they do not like the equipment it provides or the gym’s policies, they can break their contract and try Gym B, Gym C, Gym D, etc. If none of the options available are to an individual’s liking, they can also take the entrepreneurial route and start their own gym.

When it comes to governance, however, individuals do not have the same freedom. Sure, a person can “shop around” and experiment living in different jurisdictions, but if they are dissatisfied with their options, they are not free to form their own laws or governing structures without facing serious consequences. Such acts are usually seen as seditious and can end in bloodshed.

Seasteading, however, theoretically gives individuals the opportunity to treat governance like any other market entity, choosing which laws they want to abide by without resorting to violence or facing repercussions from established governments.

The general concept of seasteading has been around for years, and there are many examples throughout history of permanent structures floating at sea. However, the modern seasteading movement can be largely attributed to Wayne Gramlich, who wrote an essay in 1998 entitled “Seasteading – Homesteading on the High Seas.”

The essay spoke of the potential for colonizing the ocean’s surface with floating structures, the purpose of which was to give individuals the freedom to circumvent oppressive governments, experiment with different types of laws, experience true religious freedom, and escape excessive taxation. Years after it had been written, the essay caught the attention of Patri Friedman, who later joined with Gramlich in 2008 to launch the nonprofit organization, the Seasteading Institute.

The two were not content to keep the concept of seasteading confined to the pages of Gramlich’s essay. The Seasteading Institute sought to take these ideas and turn them into reality by encouraging and facilitating the real-life establishment of these permanent floating structures. And as crazy as this idea might sound to some, the leaders of the Seasteading Institute, along with others, have done their due diligence to discover how this could “legally” be accomplished.

While the world has largely been settled and claimed by various world governments, 45 percent of the earth is still unclaimed and free from any state’s jurisdiction. However, since this large chunk of unclaimed territory exists in international waters, relocating from dry land to the sea has not been appealing to most people. But the Seasteading Institute sought to find a way to help people live far enough away from official government jurisdiction that they were not bound by the laws but still close enough to visit land should they desire.

The answer lies in the United Nations Convention on the Law of the Sea, which created an interesting loophole through the existence of something called exclusive economic zones. According to the United Nations (UN):

The exclusive economic zone is an area beyond and adjacent to the territorial sea, subject to the specific legal regime established in this Part, under which the rights and jurisdiction of the coastal State and the rights and freedoms of other States are governed by the relevant provisions of this Convention.

These exclusive economic zones, which are subject to the rule of local governments, extend 200 nautical miles from the shore. But beyond that point rest the high seas, which belong to no one. And in the absence of an established government and legal code, Friedman and Gramlich found a way to bring their dream to fruition.

The Seasteading Institute and the rest of the seasteading movement envisioned a future where groups of seasteads could form communities, where each member promised to obey mutually agreed upon rules. If someone decides they no longer want to be a part of this community, they are free to detach their seastead from the rest of the community and live on their own or find another seasteading community to join.

At one of the first Seasteading Institute conferences, Friedman spoke to this effect, saying:

When seasteading becomes a viable alternative, switching from one government to another would be a matter of sailing to the other without even leaving your house.

This idea caught the attention of venture capitalist and PayPal co-founder Peter Thiel, who eventually pledged $500,000 to the newly-created nonprofit. Thiel said that seasteading is “one of the few technological frontiers that has the promise to create a new space for human freedom.” He has since given more than $1 million to the Seasteading Institute, and his major contributions helped thrust seasteading into the mainstream.

The Seasteading Institute and Ocean Builders are not the only advocates of this lifestyle, however. Blue Frontiers is another group that is working diligently to spread the seasteading doctrine. Joe Quirk, who runs Blue Frontiers, even wrote a book entitled Seasteading: How Floating Nations Will Restore the Environment, Enrich the Poor, Cure the Sick, and Liberate Humanity from Politicians, which, as the title eludes, highlights how seasteading can create practical solutions to many of the world’s most pressing problems.

While the movement to create these floating structures has caught on over the years, it was still largely just an idea whose time had not yet come until Elwartowski and Thepdet made the courageous decision to volunteer as the first seasteading pioneers.

On April 13th, the Thai navy boarded the seastead and began dismantling the small 20-foot wide structure that briefly stood as a beacon of individual freedom for the entire world. The couple had plans to build an entire seasteading resort, which they believed would have helped bring increased tourism to nearby Thailand. These dreams have been demolished now.

Phuket’s police chief, Major General Wisarn Phanmanee, told reporters:

At the moment we have already gathered evidence and spoke to witnesses from those involved in the construction as well as others.

In a Facebook post, Elwartowski wrote:

This is ridiculous. We lived on a floating house boat for a few weeks and now Thailand wants us killed. … We had to go underground because our contact warned us before this came out.

When he speaks of the government wanting to kill him, he is talking directly about Section 119 of the Thai criminal code, which states that those caught threatening Thai’s state sovereignty will suffer life imprisonment or death.

However, no one was threatening the government or Thailand’s sovereignty. And the only radical action taken by these two was their decision to live together in such a small space at the edge of the ocean.

Responding to the government’s claim that the two are somehow plotting some sort of overthrow of the Thai government, Friedman, commented:“Two people on a floating home is a honeymoon, not a revolution.”

For activists longing for freedom but morally opposed to using aggression or violence against oppressive governments, seasteading gives them the option to opt out of these systems peacefully. Tranquilly floating on a structure in international waters poses no threat but instead offers viable means to voicing dissent against our current power structures.

Thailand’s actions are setting a dangerous precedent. If other governments follow Thailand’s lead and begin going after those who would try to peacefully live their lives in international waters, then those longing for freedom will have few options left (if any).

While the couple is in hiding and their fate is still unknown, Ocean Builders has confirmed that they are safe for the time being. Elwartowski also wrotein a Facebook post:

Hunting us down to our death is just plain stupid and highlights exactly the reason someone would be willing to go out in middle of the ocean to get away from governments.

Thepdet added:

I have no idea what’s going on now.. why is the Thai Navy has torpedoes looking for us ..?..we are not killers we just loving couple who want to have a floating house we just want to have a simple life we don’t want to get in war with anything…. why are they doing that to us..??

While some may scoff at such a radical and seemingly rash decision to live on a seastead, the couple’s willingness to take a risk and live at sea has stretched the canvas of what is possible for the future of sovereign living. Just days before the Thai Navy began destroying Exly, Elwartowski lamented in a Facebook post, “I was free for a moment. Probably the freest person in the world. It was glorious.”

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Why Victims of Abuse Justify the Abuse

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It’s not the victim of abuse’s fault that they’re being abused today, but it is their responsibility to change. When Victims of Abuse Justify The Abuser’s Behavior     Lately, I’ve been noticing how a lot of people who are in abusive relationships have a habit of minimizing the bad behavior of their abusers. They rationalize and justify the other person’s behavior and it allows them to tolerate the unacceptable. It’s sad that people are being abused but it’s even sadder that those who are most vulnerable seem to be protecting their abusers and creating justifications for their hurtful behavior. These victims of abuse need to see the truth of what’s happening to them, and they need to make it stop. So why aren’t they doing this? In general, people who find themselves in abusive relationships as adults have also experienced childhood abuse. The traumatic experiences of their childhood set them up for future abusive relationships. There are psychological reasons for this. When a child grows up being abused, it damages their sense of self. Children naturally personalize their experiences, so if they’re loved and cherished, they grow up feeling good about themselves. If children are abused, they grow up thinking that they’re bad. These children believe that they’re undeserving of good treatment and this belief extends into their adult life, at least on an unconscious level. When a child grows up being abused, it’s not just that they’re being hurt. Abusers make sure that the child sees the abuse as “normal,” “acceptable,” and what the child “deserves.” The abuser wants to keep on abusing, and they don’t want to deal with any upset feelings on the part of their victim, so they normalize their unacceptable behavior until the victim thinks that it’s just the way things are, and the…

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