Ways to Help in Re-finding OUR PASSION!

It may be easy to say that we are ready to make certain steps in finding our passion.

But once we have set our mind to do this, you will soon realize that nothing is really simple and easy when it comes to this.

There are so many things to think about and issues to be settled before it finally becomes clear what you really want to achieve.

To make sure that you will get to your goal no matter how long it takes, you should take the necessary steps to get there.

The first thing that you have to fully understand is where it is you want to be.

You have to define that goal. What do you really want to achieve? At this point, you must face reality.

You can’t aim to be a gold medalist in swimming when you don’t even know how to swim.

In setting your goals, it will be best if you fully understand your strengths and weaknesses.

You must not be too hard on yourself by wanting something that you don’t have the capacity to attain.

You should comprehend all of your limitations.

After you have defined your goals, it will be easier to plan how you are going to get there.

But before you get serious with that, you have to analyze where you are now.

Are you happy with where you’re at?

Because if you are, why would you still want to go on a different path?

On the other hand, if you feel like you are stuck on your current job and the circumstances where you are at, or you’re just tired of being one of the working poor.

Then you no longer have to think about what you should do.

This is a very good sign that you have to try something new.

You have to get out of your current situation before it gets too late.

Sometimes, it’s so easy to stay in our comfort zone where we are not required to achieve.

This only means that you are no longer allowing yourself to grow.

And when that happens, you may lose track of the goals that you had set to achieve.

When you have reached the point that you have forgotten about what you really want to attain, you must check yourself.

You need to go back to the point when you were still setting goals and wanted achieve.

Who where you back then?

What did you dream of becoming and achieving at that point in your life?

What were the things that made you happy and made you feel inspired?

After realizing what you may have missed, you must then think about what went wrong and what happened that caused you to get derailed, from where you really want to be.

No matter how young or how old we are, we still have chances to achieve our goals. We can still take action in finding our passion.

We can always go back to the point when we e chose to turn right when we were supposed to turn left. Go back to that point in your life.

And this time, make sure that you take the right direction to where you want to be.

Tips in Finding Our Passion!

Some of us take a lifetime in realizing what we really want to do and where we want to take our journey.

It would be best if we knew the essentials in finding our passion while we were still young.

This way, you will have lots of time to fulfill whatever you want to achieve and enjoy its effects and benefits as well.

For some of us we only want to pursue our passion only after we have gone through several failures.

It is not that easy to know what we really want to do for the rest of our lives. I still don’t know, and I’m far from young, physically.

But, there are some of us who end up pursuing some very unlikely routes while forgetting what we really wanted to achieve.

The reasons for this varies. But I just call it getting caught up in life.

To help us in this regard, here are some tips that we can follow.

We should look at things around us. Determine what or who inspired us to achieve whatever goals we had in mind.

They can be your loved ones or a specific person that encouraged you to be better.

These can also be things. Be careful with this one. What are the objects that create some sparks and enhance you to move forward?

Use these objects and people in order to find out for yourself what you really want to achieve.

You can list down the things and people or places that may come to your mind when you are thinking about this, so that you can begin tracking of what really matters to you.

Think happy thoughts!

Reminisce about the times when you were most happy in your life.

What brought about such happiness? What made you happy?

And while you’re at it, you should also think about when was the last time you experienced such a moment.

If it’s already been a long time, ask yourself why? What do you think caused such a state?

Go back to the things that ignited your passion in the past. Read your favorite book.

This may be a great time to find peace digging through self-help books, videos, for some the bible.

This can especially true if you cannot talk to anyone close to you regarding the matter in ways that you hope to be understood.

If you are stuck in a job that is killing you and your only reason why your there is for the money, (aka paying the bills). Ya know that getting caught up in life thing!

Then you may have a harder time in getting to know where your real passion lies.

Because if you’re like me other people depend on you.  Bottom line we still have to take care of business.

Despite the hype, unless you’re in certain fields is still tough finding the job of our dreams out there.

You may want to look back at the point before you entered this job. What were you back then or what were you trying to achieve at that point?

What where the things you were thinking about? If you have already saved enough, then you’re probably not reading this post, you may want to consider quitting your current job.

This way, you can allot more time in pursuing the things that you really want before it is already too late.

Think this step through though! Don’t let frustration cost you everything. Don’t take for granted what you’ve already achieved. Take time to reflect on where you are.

I can Guarantee you that you are going to find people in better and worse situations then us.

Never forget to be thankful!

That being said, we all have to be open to whatever possibilities life may bring. We need to expect more than what we may already have achieved.

This can be done by being bold enough to reach out of our comfort zone.

It doesn’t matter how small or how big it is. Once we start following our hearts and minds to reach the point where we think and feel we will be happy and satisfied, we begin to feel we are on the right track.

And finding our passion will hopefully be easier in the long run.

So, You Gave Up on Finding Your Passion!

If you’re like me, feeling like you are already too old, because we’re on the downhill side of some, health, weight, age, insurance chart or table, so you’ve given up pursuing the path on finding your passion,

STOP that thought! We’re neither too old nor too young to do what we want to do, or to go where we really want to go.

If you surrender to defeat, you will never know what could have happened, if only you had allowed yourself to take risks in order to attain what you heart really wants for you.

As we go through life, there are many phases that we have to conquer before we can proclaim success over various paths.

When we were young, we thought we had to succeed no matter what. This was the ideal mindset. Even if we really didn’t know what success was, but we knew we had to have it.

Which may have been the reason why we haven’t really focused on realizing what our real passion is.

But life gets more complicated as we age, a reason why we tend to forget what we really wanted to achieve in the first place.

Going down the path of success, some of us chose to set aside our inner beliefs and give in to the opportunities that were being presented to us at the moment.

We grabbed on to these opportunities be it a scholarship, a job, a relationship? Thinking heck, it can’t be as hard as they say look at this opportunity?

Lesson learned, if it’s too good to be true, it’s too good to be true. In my opinion.

Next lesson learned, nothing replaces hard work! In my opinion.

Hardest lessons learned, thinking life will be complete after we’ve earned good money, gotten married, have a home and family, and saved up a lot.

Then we’ll pursue our passion and go back to what it is we really want to do. Problem; all that takes a lot of you.

A lot of us never get a chance to look back, feel comfortable and settled in our environment.

Life being as volatile as it is, we fear that, if we let go to pursue something where success is unknown, we will lose it all.

So, we settle into comfortable. in our situation, even though we feel we’re trapped.

Once we’re too comfortable, we’re likely be afraid to come out of it.

Even if we’re doing something that we don’t really like and we feel like life is dragging us down.

We will allow ourselves to be a prisoner of our comfort.

So, we have to take a risk before we get stuck into such state. We need to go back to the point when we promised ourselves that you will get back your passion.

That promise is important because we owe it to ourselves to make this happen.

Finding your passion is not about your age. It’s about setting your heart and mind to it to be able to pursue the path. You can’t find your passion if you don’t walk the path.

Searching For Our Passion

I believe the meaning of success depends on the person who is asked to define it.

For some of us, this can be defined in finding our passion. And once that is achieved, we already feel successful with whatever ventures they have decided to take.

But, alas this is not as easy as we would hope.

When we were young, we thought that anything was possible, even changing the world. As we dared to try new things, we failed at some and achieved at others.

Now we’re older and some of us you find ourselves stuck at a point where we feel like we have lost our way and given up on our journey.

We have to clear ourselves of all the negativity that clouds our minds and emotions. Get started back on our path.

However hard the road ahead seems to be, in order for us to get nearer to our passion, we must always be ready to take the necessary steps towards it.

Here are some things that we can do to hopefully help us get to where we eventually want to be.

Engage yourself in a self-assessment process.
• You have to think about things.
• What have you gone through to reach this point in your life?
• Where are you right now?
• What else do you want to have happen?
• How do you perceive yourself in one, three, five years from now?
• If it’s not possible to happen that soon, calculate how long it will take and the steps to get there.

After you clearly see the person that you want to be.
You must look into the steps that you are taking to make sure that it will happen.
You must review the steps that you are taking to make sure that you will become that person.

You will feel it inside of you if you want to accomplish something so bad that you are willing to do anything to get there.
This is when you feel like you have no more time to waste on other things that won’t help you to become who you eventually want to be.
One sign that you are at this point in your life is when you start reading articles and topics that can help you be more aware about your goals and ways to get there or coming to Spilt-Milk.net.

Your goals must be very clear to you.

Is that WHAT YOU REALLY want to achieve?
You have to know what you really want to have happen.
Then you have to take the steps to get there.

Review this DAILY, when you wake up in the morning and before bed at night.

VISUALIZE, these thoughts. Your thoughts, words, and deeds should match exactly how you feel.

You must not be too hard on yourself.
You should keep your goals simple, measurable and attainable.
And you must set each step that you will take to accomplish to achieve your goals.

This way, you will not easily give up when you are presented with unexpected challenges.

Once you know the steps you have to to take to complete your journey, you have to make up your mind to take these necessary steps.

YOU have to take action to accomplish them.

This is something that you have to do in order to be at a happier and more fulfilled state.

As you begin your journey and are taking the steps in finding your passion, you must cherish your actions.

You should also take good care of whatever you will eventually achieve to make sure that your hard work is rightly rewarded by paying it forward.

If We Can Figure Out What Really Matters, Maybe We Can Find our Passion!

A majority of us confess to experiencing a disconnection between having a job and doing what we are really passionate about.

Many of us are experiencing irregular sleeping habits, stress, and left wondering what really matters in our lives.

Since our work is not just an eight-hour interruption in our day and we spend most of our waking hours on it. Either on the job, prepping for it, or trying how to figure out how to get to the next level.

It’s important to start finding our passion and incorporating it in our jobs. Whether you like it or not, we are affected by the choices we make in our jobs. In fact that job was our first major choice.

Many of us land at our first job through mysterious ways. Recruited in college, took over family business, or discharged from the military. For me after graduating from college and two weeks of bliss my mother told me, very eloquently I may add, that is was time to get a job.

Oh and by the by, go here and apply, Mrs., Church Lady from church’s son can get you a job. What could I was still living at home at the time.

So I went down and took what I called at that time; a dummy test at a major corporation. I passed, had an Interview and started as an entry level trainee.

Mrs. Church Lady’s son didn’t know me from the preacher’s daughter. Anyway that’s another story.

How we act at work is often the most documented record of who we are, what we stand for, and what we believe, from our employers perspective anyway. Or better yet other perceptions of who we are, based on how we’ve interacted with them in our professional environment. Hum!

For us to know what really matters and is important for us, we need to discover the secret. The what i[‘’ call the who, what, when, where, and how of finding joy, serenity, and fulfillment in our life.

Firstly, we must find ourselves! Many of us already know what really matters to us, but we are conflicted with priorities of this chaos we call life, that restrict us from following our lifelong dreams. I personally feel that, if we want to find our passion we must let our hearts be our guide.

We can never get back the time you we’ve spent so far. Time is our most precious non-renewable treasure we have.

Every day we are asked to make thousands of choices that defines who you are. Finding the choices that really matter to us can hopefully help us not to waste this most precious commodity. So we must choose wisely!

Be aware and clear. Know and claim the choices that lead us to our passion. If we want to live our lives to the fullest, we need the courage to be true to our passion and find the opportunities that gives us the ability to do that.

Follow your heart and dreams and strive on finding your passion. When we do this, hopefully we can experience a transformation leap of knowing ourselves and our connection to the universe.

Each of us has a unique final discovery of our passion, but that discovery truly determines who we want to be.

Maybe these can help;
Who influenced you the most?
Who do you feel is most important to you?
Why was your greatest experience so great?
What made your worst experience so bad?
What do you feel is the most important thing missing from your life right now?
What lesson has served you best throughout your career?
What message has been bouncing inside your head for the past year or longer?
The answers to some of these questions may help us re-find our passion.