Taking a Risk With Relationships!

‘With any Relationship comes Threat! Wi Hindsight is a superb issue – in particular in terms of human relationships! Nonetheless, ‘love is blind’ as being the aged proverb should go, specifically when an example may be embarking on a new relationship. We want ‘things’ to see, and even though there could possibly be indicators from…

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I’m Separated. Currently What? You are divided, yet you trul…

You are separated, but you really don’t want a divorce. You want to follow the Biblical ideal of seeking reconciliation. How do you go about it. First, you must not allow your emotions to control you. I didn’t say that you should not have emotions. Hurt, anger, disappointment, and pain are often the emotions of separation. Or, you may feel relieved, free, happy they are gone. Whatever your emotions, you must not allow them to control your behavior. If you do, you may murder your spouse. The Christian is called upon to seek reconciliation. This means we must take constructive action. Such action may mean that I must go against my feelings. Prayer is the best place to begin. “Lord, you know my feelings, but I want to be controlled by your spirit, not my feelings. Show me what action I should take and give me the power to do it.” Such a prayer is the first step in the right direction.

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How to begin the invisible work of change management

My latest in Quartz…

Someone once said to me “you’re good at change management” and I was like, what?

I sat with the idea for a couple of weeks and eventually realized: Oh! That is what I do! I take teams that are struggling and help them focus, align, and start delivering at their potential, i.e. change management.

The thing about change management is that it involves a lot of invisible work that’s hard to follow from the outside. The two things that people see in change management are the change (toward the end, if they are paying attention) and when it goes (sometimes horribly) wrong. Here are some lessons I’ve learned from the change-management trenches, whether as the manager or the changee.

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Have You Existed Prior To This Existence?

As well as knowledgeable deja vu? You already know, that experiencing you obtain after you get into a structure you’ve never been through just before however in some manner contain the emotion that you’ve got? Or sensation you will get whenever you fulfill someone the very first time and feel an instant connection, like you’ve…

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This is my initial informal message!

By informal I suggest it’s my turn for the “No Spin Zone”! Exactly how can anybody claim they we’re not placing our very own point of view (” SPIN”) on concerns that are dear to us? Exactly how can we distance ourselves from what we really feel are very important? Anyhow, that’s a conversation for…

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